No matter how long you've been together, it is still important to give your partner a present at the holidays. It doesn't have to be expensive, it doesn't have to be elaborate, it just has to have thought behind it.

Gift giving can be very frustrating and anxiety-producing because you want to find the perfect gifts, and you want to love what others give to you. Focusing on the event of gift giving instead of the worry that you got the wrong thing for the wrong person can definitely make this time of the year more enjoyable for you.

Finding, wrapping and giving a gift to someone that you care about shows that this person means something to you. The thought behind the present is certainly more important than the gift itself, so don't fuss about cost or if you can't wrap it up perfectly. Your partner won't care about those things, just that you thought about them and put work into finding a gift for them.

Holidays are tough, but even if you buy the "wrong" thing, your partner can laugh it off with you and kiss and thank you just for trying. You got this! Happy holidays!